People always believe that they will spend the most memorable s*x of their lives on their wedding night. The notion of ‘suhaag raat’ in Hindi film is so over-hyped nowadays that people often plan their wedding nights in their heads.
Although the level of excitement to have s*x on the wedding night might be very high but at the same time, it can also be an awkward experience.
Here are a few tips that can make the situation less awkward for newly wedded couples:
The first thing to do on the wedding night is to take things slow. Don’t try to rush into doing things for which you would end up repenting later. You may start by focusing on making the wedding a romantic and emotional night.
At the time of your wedding night the newly-weds are tired. Attending to wedding guests, friends and family can be very exhaustive during the function. So, do not feel guilty if you find yourself not in your best form to have s*x on the most-awaited night of your life.
In most of the Indian weddings, the bride and groom are very busy in performing one ritual after another so they are hardly left with any time to talk to each other. Prepare yourself and your spouse for the night ahead by engaging in healthy flirting during the day.
Before having s*x, it’s very important to take into consideration what the other person wants. What if he or she is not ready to have s*x or maybe too tired to engage in the act? In order to make it a memorable affair, both the partners should be ready for it.
Don’t try to impose your decision on your partners rather try to spend some quality time so that you both will know each other’s choice and wants.
PNN